squarecnix (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

i think the important part is it that i only hear blk ppl discussing y some are dating other races. Ppl date who they want 2 date. 90% of the blk ppl i see when im wit my grl are with other black girls. They look n that shit gets me heated. but w/e. My point is, its not like there is an epidemic of black men "abandoning" black women. by the way, I hear u but disagree about the bit about trying to "tear down those walls of attitude" cuz evry race women has probs, but they might be w/o walls

nash444444 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

sisters have gotta know how much you are worth! Nothing moves me more than a BLACK WOMANS SOUL!....for real.

brianbmf (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

Yea but alot of the reasons you named are minor reasons it all comes down to them choosing the right men,because men mostly approach women and that women needs to use good judgement to either know this guy is a bum or a good guy..and thats a majority reason,a womens husband dying and leaving her single happens way less the a women just choosing an idot for a man by far.

jiglife (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

Maybe you misinterpreted the vid. but I'm NOT at all fighting anyone. On the contrary, I was trying to help EXPLAIN why some blk women may seem to come across in a certain way. I will def. check out the letter though. Thanks.

brianbmf (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

I really think that every single black person on youtube that has videos fighting against each other,men vs women,light skin vs dark,kinky hair vs str8 hair etc...yall need to go read willie lynches letter!Everybody talks about it but from what i see on youtube nobody has read it,because if you did you wouldnt be fighting each other!Everybody is acting like well trained slaves!read the letter and you will see what im talking about!

jrmtravis (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

& I also agree with marley about how it's not fair to any male to have to tear down the boundaries of a black female in order to "find the jewel." Not saying there isn't a jewel, but It's really not our problem if there are walls up in the first place. It seems to me that guys would be superficial and attempt to tear down a black females "wall" because their only interest in doing that is because she was good looking ;P If they had a sweet essence about them like other races do, damnnnn

jrmtravis (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

I agree with eye that bringing up slavery seems a bit like the "easy way out" Anyways, I have tried talking to a few black females and they all have attitudes, hence why I stop trying to pursue them. I have yet to meet a black female with a nice character about them.

dbtmarley (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

LOL

dbtmarley (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

Why should a man have to try and tear down walls that they never helped put up? If a woman is expecting the worst it most likely will be. A good friend once said to me it is those who try to control everything that are usually the ones who lose control the most and I find this true. It's all about decisions, if you choose a bad guy you ain't going to change him and it takes times to see ones true colors. Instead of sexing the guy in the first week take the time to know him .

GarlynX (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

great video.....